Dealing with nerves is part of the speaking journey. Even after 15 + years of delivering keynotes around the world, I still get butterflies before I step on stage.

In fact, I'm sometime a hot mess just before the talk. But, the key isn’t to eliminate nerves entirely, but to channel them into energy and focus. I always say that getting nervous means you care – and that is a good thing.

I cover more about nerves in my book, Zero to Keynote, which also includes the 11 Principles of Effective Communication. Following these 11 principles will absolutely help you reduce nerves – especially the one about practicing the talk!

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I was recently in Oslo, Norway for a Keynote presentation – my first one back in-person for two years.

As usual, it was a nervous but rewarding journey. In this video I share some Behind The Scenes insights into deliver a talk.

I decompress in a DeLorean car! I share some ideas on preparing and I explain why decompressing after a talk is so important for me.

Watch the vlog here:


Final Thoughts

Nerves never fully disappear, and that’s okay. They mean you care. But with these principles—and with preparation—you can transform nervous energy into connection and impact.

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